My mother - Born in a Polish shtetl, she came to Germany at the age of three. Fifteen years later, a stateless Jew, she escaped from Nazi Germany on a boat of illegal immigrants and arrived on the coast of British Mandate of Palestine two weeks before the start of WW2. She lived in a kibbutz close to the Jordanian and Syrian borders, then in Tel Aviv where she met her future husband. She followed him to Paris and married him in the early fifties.
A refugee twice, a survivor of three conflicts and a victim of Nazi persecutions that claimed the lives of her parents, she always smiled and said "I've had so much luck in my life."
Had she been born a year earlier, she would have been a citizen of the Austro-Hungarian empire. Today, she would be Ukrainian. But, she was born just ten months after the end of WW1, and three months after the Treaty of Versailles which made Sokal part of newly reborn Poland. And so Toni was technically a Polish citizen.
When she was five months old, newly-born Poland declared war on Russia, hoping to take advantage of the confusion that had followed the Soviet revolution to increase its territory. Much of the fighting took place in Galicia, with each passage of both Polish and Russian armies triggering pogroms in the shtetls.
When she was one year old, the Russian cossacks fought and defeated the Polish army in Sokal. Like in other shtetls, the battle was followed by a pogrom from the drunk cossacks.
I don't know what happened during these days of violence, but many years later, in 1938 Germany her mother Frida would swear to never return to Poland - Nazi Germany on the eve of the holocaust somehow seemed a better place to her...
In 1920, Leo, Toni's father, left Sokal for Germany.
Like many other Jews who had suffered through WW1, the Polish-Russian hostilities and now the mounting anti-Jewish atmosphere of the newly independent Polish state, he looked towards the West for a better life for himself and for his family.
He was temporarily leaving behind his wife and children, who would finally follow him two years later.
Around 1921 or 1922, at the age of three, Toni finally left Sokal with her mother Frida and her one-year-old baby brother, Yitzhak. She would retain no memory of Poland.
1922: Toni arrived in Gera, a small town in Thuringia, Germany. She said she remembered a man waiting for them in the train station. She also thought she remembered the Red Cross helping them - although she admitted it might have been something she imagined later. If true, this would indicate that they came to Germany as refugees and not as immigrants.
Toni on her first day of school, holding the traditional "Schultuete" (school cone) filled with candies. Gera, Fall 1926.
Starting in 1926, Toni went to elementary school, then to secondary school until 1934.
She remembered the years of hyperinflation:
"People needed a suitcase filled with banknotes to buy a loaf of bread."
She also remembered that one winter the weather had been so cold, and the country so poor, her school couldn't afford the coal to heat the classrooms, so all the children had stayed home and there had been no school for the entire winter.
Classmates, Gera, 1929
Her father Leo owned a store where he sold linen, and he did well enough to provide his family with a comfortable, middle-class life.
The Katz family kept a Jewish home: Shabbat, kosher, holidays but had little social contact with German Jews. Immigrant from the East - "OstJuden" - they were looked down upon by German Jews and attended a synagogue for Galician Jews while German Jews went to their own synagogue.
Yitzhak, Leo and Toni - Gera, 1932
1933: Hitler came to power.
Gera was an industrial town, mainly "working class, unionized and socialist - people were "red"".
The day the Nazis won the elections and came to power, people became terrified and submitted in fear of the Nazis.
In her school, everybody stopped talking to her. "This was not out of hatred, but out of fear." She was abandoned by all her friends.
"The only girl who continued to talk to me was actually the one girl whose father had been a member of the Nazi party since the beginning. Some of the teachers were Nazis, but not all."
Gera classmates, March 1934
1934: Toni, now aged fourteen, had to leave school because of the rising antisemitism.
"In 1934, it became impossible to continue to attend school because of the Nazi persecutions against Jews, and I had to abandon my studies." (affidavit, 1968)
So as to not remain sitting idly at home, Toni signed a three-year contract as an apprentice in the Max Biermann department store in Gera. She started to work on May 1st, 1934. She was not yet fifteen.
Biermann store, Gera.
(Photo from "Juden in Gera, I", Werner Simsohn)
Toni worked in the Biermann departement store for a year and a half, until the store became "aryanised", and she was abruptly dismissed like all Jewish employees in the fall of 1935 (or December 31st?). She was a sixteen years old.
Biermann store on the day of the boycott, April 1, 1933.
(Photo from "Juden in Gera, I", Werner Simsohn)
Feeling increasingly isolated with no possibility to study, work or acquire professional training, young Jews flocked Jewish and proto-Zionist youth groups to find some communal support.
1933 /1934?: Toni became a member of Maccabi, a Jewish sports association.
Toni with Maccabi group, 1933 or 1934?
(Photo courtesy of Siegmund Spiegel)
1936: She was not allowed to work anymore.
Yitzhak and Toni - Gera, ca October 1936
(Photo courtesy of Shulik Mir)
Toni, Frida, Gera. October 18, 1936.
Yitzhak, Frida, Leo and Toni - Gera, October 1936
Toni, Gera - date unknown. The address of the photographer: Adolf Hitler Platz, Gera...
Toni - Gera
Toni - Gera?
Toni - Gera?
(Photo courtesy of Shulik Mir)
In 1937, Toni's younger brother Yitzhak fled Germany with the Youth Aliyah. Before his departure, the family took a series of portraits, photos that Yitzhak took with him to Palestine, the only surviving photos of Leo and Frida.
Toni, Leo and Frida, Gera, August 15, 1937.
1938: In the summer of 1938, Toni went to a Hechalutz (Socialist-Zionist) hachshara (training) center located in Flensburg, in the north of Germany, near the border with Denmark.
This center operated from 1934 to 1938 in Jägerslust, a country estate on the outskirts of Flensburg.
For a little over four months, she received training in preparation for immigration to Palestine.
Toni in hachshara, Flensburg, 1938.
(Photo courtesy of Shulik Mir)
Toni in hachshara, Flensburg, 1938?
One goal of the training was to acquire an occupational training that would fulfill the requirements of the British mandatory power with regards to the qualification of Jewish immigrants to Palestine (workers/employable labour between the ages of eighteen and thirty-five)
The HeChalutz did not however regard itself as a organization for occupational training; its aim was to alter the "complete person" in the course of a personal Hachshara and Aliya in accordance with the Zionist ideal.
The HeChalutz contrasted the style of life of the chalutzim (pioneers) with that of the bourgeois, highly assimilated German Jewry.
This goal did not only consist of learning Jewish history, knowledge of the Palestine region or an elementary grasp of Hebrew. The HeChalutz wanted to be sure that German Jewish emigrants to Palestine were committed to the Zionist cause. That meant self-sacrificing work in the service of building a "Jewish home".
The HeChalutz believed that a period of ideological preparation should precede the occupational training. It was also important that these young Jews should lose the illusion that an "agreeable" life awaited them in Palestine. The HeChalutz made it plain that life in Palestine would be earnest, primitive and hard.
The young people were to understand that they were to subordinate themselves to the national task of Jewry in Palestine.
The consequence of this was that the applicants' viewpoint became the decisive criterion whether or not a young Jew acquired a Hachshara place. In this sense the HeChalutz regarded itself as an "education movement".
The HeChalutz's emphatically "Jewish" educational objective brought it into conflict with established German Jewry. Many saw a distinctly Jewish education as a conscious departure from Germaneness. Jewish youth saw their decision for immanent emigration to Palestine in sharp contrast to those who had decided to remain in Germany despite the ostracization and discrimination.
(above excerpts from http://www1.uni-hamburg.de/rz3a035//borchardt.html)
It seems Toni was preparing herself to do aliyah legally, like Yitzhak had done a year earlier. However, she was already too old to qualify for youth Aliyah (she was now 19) and needed to participate in the training program to hope to qualify for the limited spots available, according to the British mandate requirements.
Note: The timing of the following events is not absolutely clear. I have attempted to reconstruct the correct order according to my understanding.
1938, October 27- 28: Across Germany, a one-day "Aktion" was planned for October 28: to round-up all the Polish Jews and expel them back to Poland. The leader of the training camp (or the owner of the estate?) had been alerted ahead of time of the incoming "Aktion" on the training camp, so he sent everybody to hide in a movie theater for the duration of the "aktion", which was supposed to stop at midnight.
Most of the Jews in the camp were German, but Toni, along with a few others, were Polish and were the target of the nation-wide hunt meant to deport all Polish Jews back to Poland. Three days later she would officially become "stateless", having lost her Polish nationality.
At the same time, 300 miles away, in Gera, her parents Leo and Frida were deported to Poland, along with 17,000 Polish Jews.
1938, November 9-10: Kristallnacht throughout Germany.
About Kristallnacht, Toni once said "Ah... la on n'a pas rigolé..." - "Ah.. we didn't laugh... "
Note: (I believe she was still in Flensburg then. So it's possible that what happened next did take place during Kristallnacht - but this is pure conjecture on my part. Unless I can find documents on this heChalutz center, I have nothing to back me up on the date of the event.)
"After approximately 4 months there, the Gestapo arrived one morning at 4 am. We were all arrested, and taken to preventative arrest in Flensburg. The women were let go during the day, on condition that we would leave the camp immediately. The men were taken to a concentration camp (KZ). While we were arrested, our camp was entirely destroyed but the Gestapo, so were our personal belongings."
Another time, said that they rounded up everybody, took them to the prison. But they were polite and rather "easy going". They kept them for a few hours, then let the girls out. They kept the boys who were sent to camps, but were later released.
They showed them a pile of things, told them to go through the pile and pick up their belongings, and Toni did retrieve the things that belonged to her. When they got back to the estate though, everything, including the furniture, had been destroyed by the local Nazi thugs who, just a day before, were still playing cards with the "boss" of the center (leader ? or owner of the estate?). He was arrested, although he later managed to escape to Denmark.
"I then left illegally for Hamburg. I was helped there by the Jewish community, which helped me get back to Gera." (affidavit)
Toni managed to get back to Gera somehow. Travelling through Germany was now very dangerous for her as she was not only Jewish but now also stateless.
In Gera, she was hidden by good friends of her parents.
Toni, outside of Gera - dated January 1939, but probably earlier. Photo sent to Siegmnund Spiegel.
(Photo courtesy of Siegmund Spiegel)
She stayed with the family of her former employer, a department store owner who was in a camp and was badly beaten there, staying with his wife (The Biermann family?)
She also stayed with her friend Esther Flieg's family, who gave her a place to stay. She gave them some money from the sale of the furniture and other things from her parents' house.
She got money her parents had left with friends and sent it to them in Krakow. Apparently the frontier runner was a SA (or something similar) and kept some of the money for himself, but Leo and Frida did receive some of the money.
With that money they were able to get a room with kitchen in Krakow.
A little later, Toni sent some of their furniture and things from their apartment for them in Krakow, so they could set up their new place.
According to Mary, who was in Krakow with Leo and Frida at some point, they did receive some of the furniture, some of it they never received - Toni's dowry being among the things that disappeared.
She had liquidated everything (or "part of the things"? she probably sold the merchandise, and part of the furniture and things she didn't send to Krakow), and sent everything to her parents, with the idea that she too would go to Krakow to be with her parents.
Toni then went to Weissenfels, a town 50 miles from Gera and stayed with Mary Frankel. Mary had returned from Poland in the Spring to liquidate the family apartment and store, and was waiting for her and Max's visas for America. (Since Toni was still in contact with her parents in Krakow, I suppose they would have told her that Mary was on her way back and to go stay with her.)
My mother went back to Germany from Cracow in the spring of 1939 while my father and I stayed in Poland. She had permission to liquidate our apartment and store, and packed crates for America, etc.
Her real motive was to finally secure U.S. visas in Berlin, but she spent much of those weeks in Weissenfels, and that is probably when your mother was with her.
Tony said she lived for three months with "just a handbag and a toothbrush", while she stayed with Mary.
Toni had planned to go to Poland - her parents had told her that "at least, this way we will all be together". She was to take the train to get to the border at midnight the next day. She had "knots of fear in her stomach", she would have to use a frontier runner to cross the border, as going to Poland was now illegal.
The day before her departure, she received a letter from the heChalutz group that informed her that, if she wanted, they had a spot available for her on a boat that was being readied for Palestine. They would be ready to leave in the next three days.
She called her parents in Krakow to ask what she should do. Should she come to Krakow to be with them as planned, or should she try to leave on this illegal boat?
Although the war hadn't begun yet, they must have felt that they were trapped, and didn't believe anymore that things were going to turn out well.
They had disapproved of Ytzhak leaving for Palestine a year before. Now they probably understood that it had become a matter of life and death.
They told her to go. They said: "We'll know that you at least are safe"
Talking about this decision, about the timing of this letter sixty years later - talking about how she changed her plans at the last moment and didn't go to Poland as originally planned, she said "J'ai eu beaucoup de chance dans ma vie..." - "I've had a lot of luck in my life..."
The three days then turned into three to four months, as delays after delays pushed the departure date back.
Finally the day came, and she traveled across Germany - from Gera to Belgium - illegally, by train.
She was only allowed to leave with one backpack with 8 kilos of belongings, including a wool blanket.
She went to Cologne (Koln), stayed there for a week in a Jewish house (or center) ("horrible" she said).
When we were in Koln in 1976, she pointed to a phone booth in the street, in front of the main post office. She said this was where she had spoken to her parents for the last time, from that same location. This was illegal - Jews were not allowed to use public phones.
1939: In May, 1939, she finally managed to escape Nazi Germany.
She crossed the border between Germany and Belgium, illegally of course. Being stateless - without a passport - no country would allow her in. A Jew from Germany, she was an unwanted refugee that no European country would accept.
She probably crossed the border alone or with a very small group of chalutzim.
She went to Antwerp, and was reunited with the entire group - one hundred young German chalutzim. Once again, delays meant they had to wait for the boat. This time the waiting lasted one month.
First, they stayed at the Maccabi clubhouse, sleeping on straw on the floor, one hundred youngsters. Members of Maccabi would come to flirt with the girls.
Then she went to stay in the house of some wealthy Jews who were away for summer vacations - four boys were staying upstairs, four girls downstairs.
One day, the Belgian police came, alerted by the denunciation of a neighbor that illegal aliens were staying in the apartment. They took away the boys to jail, where they would be kept until their boat left. The police hadn't noticed the girls who were on the other floor though, so they escaped the arrest. They went back to stay at the Maccabi clubhouse.
(Another time, I think she said that the police simply wanted to make sure that the illegal aliens wouldn't end up staying in Belgium. They were told that the German Jews were waiting for a boat to take them, so they would arrest the boys for the day, then would release them, then would arrest them again, etc. until the time when the boat was finally ready to leave.)
1939, July 18: The day finally came - the boat that would take them away from Europe and would bring them to Israel finally showed up. It was a steamboat called the Dora. The boat had been commissioned by Mossad le Aliya Beth - they would be coming as illegal immigrants, despite the ban of the British mandate authorities.
When they first saw the boat in the harbor, people in her group remarked that the vessel was way too small for so many people, and wasn't suitable for such a long trip. Toni told them "naive as I was" that, "of course, this is just a little boat that will take us to the real boat, which must be somewhere in the high sea - they don't want to bring the real boat in the harbor because it would give it away..."
That "little boat" was in fact the actual boat that would take them through a 4-week travel, with about 480 illegal immigrants.
They finally sailed away from Vlissingen on July 18th, 1939.
(Photo from "Dodenschip Dora" in Vrij Nederland, Chaya Brasz)
On board, the arrangements were quite rudimentary. They slept on wooden planks, 3 people lying "tete beche", with a space about 30 cm per person.
Half-way through the trip, the Greek crew went on strike and said they wouldn't go any further unless they received double the money. Toni then noticed her friends walking around the boat with handguns in their belts - this seemed apparently to solve the rebellion.
They stopped for one week in a small remote port in Turkey, waiting for the right time to land. They telegraphed to Palestine, waiting for a moonless night when they could land without being caught by the British navy.
There was a small Jewish community there, who asked them to let some men come down ashore so they could have a minyan. The group leaders refused to let anyone get off the boat. Anyway, the heChalutz leaders didn't care much about shabbat or anything religious.
One day, local people brought fresh water in boats, with their feet in the water. Everybody rushed to drink the water, because all they'd had was slightly salty water for the entire trip. They also brought watermelons. Later, everyone got sick. Ever since that day, she'd never liked watermelons. (I also remember a different version: the water was bad, and she alone didn't drink it - so she was the only one who wasn't sick. She'd only had watermelon.)
The Dora odyssey
They finally arrived in Palestine on August 12, 1939, landing in Shfayim. Toni said she'd jumped in the water to reach the shore.
When the immigrants came out of the water, there were people waiting ashore, who gave them clothes and IDs, so they wouldn't be arrested if the British soldiers found them.
She thought maybe the patrols had been paid off not to find them.
Toni said that the British soldiers found the Dora in the morning, and that was the last trip the boat made. However this was apparently not the case. It seems that in October 1939, after the start of the war, the Dora was chartered to carry passengers from Constanza, but the departure was cancelled.
1939 to ?: Right after her arrival, she went to a kibbutz in Raanana. The first person she met there was Dan Birnbaum, the brother of her friend from Gera, Ruth Birnbaum (Lessing). All the boys wanted her/them (?) to stay - she said: "they wanted German girls, they were tired of the other girls..."
Toni, Tel-Aviv, 1939
1940?: After a short while, she moved to kibbutz Maoz Haim, along with other new immigrants. Maoz Haim was a new kibbutz, in a more remote location by the border. There, they started from scratch, living like pioneers, erecting watchtowers, building prefab houses, sleeping under tents. (Dan Birnbaum was in Maoz Haim too - we will meet him went we visit in the 70's.)
Toni, with Dan Birnbaum. Kibbutz Maoz Haim, 1940
Toni and Dan Birnbaum, Maoz Haim, 1940
Toni and Dan Birnbaum, Maoz Haim, 1940
Toni, Maoz Haim, 1940
Toni said that upon first arriving in the kibbutz, people had to give everything they had to the group. All personal posessions went to the kibbutz, and were then shared. Even clothes were shared and rotated weekly.
Although she shared the dream of communal life in the kibbutz and liked to describe her life there - she'd smile when she talked about how they'd dance the hora after work - she also had problems living in the kibbutz.
She told the story of a woman who accused her of destroying clothes that had come apart after Toni had worn them. It took her a while to realize her accuser was unfair, maybe even jealous. The clothes were already old by the time they had gotten to her, and that they were finished and ready to fall apart.
ID Card, Palestine Mandate, 1940.
August 1940: Toni was issued an ID card delivered by the British authorities of Mandatory Palestine.
"Tony Catz" lives in Maoz, she is a "farmer", and her "race" is "jewess" - not so different from what would be on her papers in Germany at the same time...
When we visited in the 70's, she described her life there at the time. First they lived in tents. The first building was the communal dining room. Next, I think was the hen house, then maybe the school for the kids, or the dorm for the kids. Houses for people came last. (I was in my early teens then, so my recollections are quite unreliable and vague)
1940: July, 16th, she married David Ben Nachman Liebergot. Although they would be married for eight years, the marriage would not be successful. The couple had no children together.
David Liebergot, Tel Aviv.
David Liebergot, Toni's first husband.
David Liebergot was - according to his cousin Alex Neuhoff, a "very nice boy" but didn't have a profession, so he helped his adoptive father in his job.
Almost 40 years later, Toni would tell me that "I didn't know any better. I didn't have my parents to give me advice... He was a very complicated boy...".
194?: Eventually, Toni left Maoz Haim.
"After Maoz Haim, I lived until 1950 in Tel-Aviv, where I worked as a housemaid ('employee de maison') and worked in a flower shop as a saleswoman."
It's not clear when she left Maoz Haim for Tel Aviv, however in May 1941 she gave her address on the card she sent her parents as:
Ben Yehuda street, 61
Note: Rovinski was the family who had adopted her husband David Liebergot as a child.
According to Alex Neuhoff, Toni and David Liebergot lived in a room in his adoptive parents' appartment. Toni was not very happy because Madame Rovinski was "not very bright" and not very generous - "although they didn't have much money". Toni soon found a job managing a flower store on Ben Yehuda avenue.
Toni, Tel-Aviv, 1943
Toni and Yitzhak, Tel-Aviv, 31 March 1943
In the 40's, Toni worked in a flower shop on Ben Yehuda.
1945: letter to Riva:
"I am working as usual at the little flower shop, a very good job, I still have plenty of time just for myself."
Toni and (?), Tel-Aviv, 1946?
Toni, Tel-Aviv, 1947?
Alex Neuhoff, David's Liebergot's cousin, (or of the Rovinskis?) was a friend and roommate of Uriel Abraham. One day he introduced Uriel and Toni.
According to Alex Neuhoff, "when Uriel and Toni met, she wasn't separated yet. They would meet with friends on the beach in Tel Aviv, to play paddle ball - that's how they met".
One day, Uriel Abraham came home and told his roommate, Alex Neuhoff: "I think I'm in love with the florist."
194?: Tel Aviv. Toni learned photography at Schimmel's, and modelled for a series of photographs.
Toni, Schimmel's Photography, Tel Aviv.
194?: Toni liked to go to the beach in Tel Aviv with a circle of friends, which included Uriel.
Tel Aviv beach, 194?
1947: There is a photo of Uriel with "copyright Toni" - so they knew each other already.
1948: Photos of Toni and Uli together
Toni and Uriel in Tel Aviv - 1947 or 1948
1948: August 12: She officially divorced David Liebergot.
1948/1949: Toni worked in a Kindergarten in Tel Aviv.
Toni, kindergarten, Tel-Aviv, 1949
1948: Confused... I thought she said she didn't go in the army because being in a kibbutz on the border was considered being part of the defense lines - but it seems she was in Tel Aviv then?
1948: She had mentioned seeing the sunken remains of the Altalena on the shore of Tel Aviv - so she had to be in Tel Aviv around 48/49.
1949 September: Uriel left Tel Aviv and returned to Paris, to be with his mother. Toni would follow him a little later.
1950: End of 1950, Toni left Tel Aviv and went to Paris to be with Uriel.
1951: February, 27, Uriel and Toni got married in Paris. (From "Antwort auf die Auflage der Behorde, 1966") - although their ketouba is dated 25 June 1951. Two ceremonies more than one year apart?
1951 Alliance Francaise, Paris
1951 Unesco, Paris
1952? or 1954-1956: Toni worked in Rachel Gordin's Jewish Montessori Kindergarten. She may have started even earlier, as there is a photo from Hannukah 1952.
1955 Toni and Uriel were still living in Ronya's house, 35 Rue de Lubeck, Paris 16.
- Toni Abraham, nee Katz
- Siegmund Spiegel (Gera years)
- Alex Neuhoff (Palestine years)
- Special Thanks:
- Shulik Mir, for sharing family photos
- Siegmund Spiegel, for providing much of the information included on this and other Katz-related pages, and additional photos
- Max Frankel, for giving the 1926 photo of Toni on her first day to school
- Chaya Brasz, for graciously allowing the posting of the Dora article
- Erik Post, for translating the Dora article
- References and Publications:
- The "Coffin Ship". Vrij Nederland. May 1, 1993..